Oral sex can be one of the most intimate, generous things you share with a partner — and with a little know-how (and the right extras), you can make it even better for him. In this episode of Sex Ed with Sunny, Sunny shares her favorite ways to enhance oral sex with your male partner.
Give it a watch, then read on for the highlights.
Start With Communication
Every partner is different, so the best place to begin is by paying attention. Ask him what feels good, watch how he responds, and let his reactions guide you. A little check-in goes a long way — and showing that you genuinely want to please him is a huge turn-on all by itself.
Use Your Hands, Too
You don't have to do everything with your mouth. Combining a gentle stroking motion with your hands lets you cover more ground, control the pace, and give your mouth a rest whenever you need one. A little lube makes hand-and-mouth teamwork feel seamless.
Try Flavored Lube
A good flavored, body-safe lube adds a touch of sweetness, keeps everything comfortable and slick, and makes the whole experience more enjoyable for both of you. It's one of the easiest, most affordable upgrades there is.
Bring in a Toy
Toys aren't just for solo time. As Sunny shows in the video, a few well-chosen additions can take things up a notch:
- A vibrating cock ring — adds buzzy stimulation for him (and can feel great for you), while helping him stay firmer, longer.
- A stroker or masturbator sleeve — pair it with your mouth to layer in extra sensation and variety.
- A small bullet vibe — pressed gently against the base or perineum, it adds a whole new dimension of feeling.
Take Your Time and Get Comfortable
There's no rush. Slow, teasing build-up heightens anticipation and makes everything that follows feel more intense. And comfort matters — find a position and angle that let you relax so you can stay present and enjoy yourself, too.
Make It About Connection
Above all, enthusiasm is everything. Eye contact, clearly enjoying yourself, and making him feel wanted are some of the sexiest things you can bring to the moment. When he feels desired and cared for, the whole experience gets better for both of you.
Curious about a cock ring, a flavored lube, or the perfect little toy to add to the mix? Come see us — our team will happily point you to some great options, kindly and judgment-free.
Take care of yourself.
— Sunny