Oral sex can be one of the most intimate, pleasurable things you share with a partner — and a few small additions can take it from great to unforgettable. In this episode of Sex Ed with Sunny, Sunny shares her favorite ways to enhance oral, including a fun little toy called the Evoke that has more uses than you'd expect.
Give it a watch, then read on.
It Starts With Communication
The best oral sex isn't about technique alone — it's about paying attention. Ask your partner what feels good, watch their reactions, and let their feedback guide you. A gentle check-in ("does that feel good?") is genuinely sexy, and it takes the guesswork out of pleasing each other.
Take Your Time
There's no rush. Slow, teasing build-up — kissing the inner thighs, light touches, working your way in — heightens anticipation and makes everything that follows feel more intense. Warm up before you dive in.
Add a Little Something: Toys
You don't have to rely on tongue and hands alone. A small vibrating toy — like the Evoke that Sunny features in the video — can add gentle, buzzy stimulation that complements what you're doing with your mouth. Held against the clitoris during oral, it layers in a whole new sensation and can make reaching orgasm easier and more intense.
- Bullet & finger vibes — small, precise, and easy to hold during oral.
- Wearable / finger toys like the Evoke — free up your hands and add versatile stimulation.
- Flavored lubes — make everything tastier and more slippery-fun.
Try Flavored Lube
A good flavored, body-safe lube adds a little sweetness (literally) and keeps everything comfortable and slick. It's an easy, low-cost way to make oral more enjoyable for both of you.
Get Comfortable
Comfort matters — for the giver and the receiver. Use pillows, find an angle that doesn't strain your neck, and settle in so you can both relax. When you're comfortable, you can take your time and stay present.
Make It About Connection
Above all, oral sex is a chance to focus entirely on your partner's pleasure. Eye contact, enthusiasm, and clearly enjoying yourself are some of the sexiest things you can bring to it. When your partner feels desired and cared for, everything gets better.
Want to try the Evoke, or find the perfect little toy to add to the mix? Come see us — our team will happily point you to some great options, kindly and judgment-free.
Take care of yourself.
— Sunny