Oral sex is one of the most intimate, generous things you can share with a partner — and the good news is that making it better usually comes down to a few simple things anyone can do. In this episode of Sex Ed with Sunny, Sunny shares her go-to tips for making oral better for everyone involved.
Give it a watch, then read on for the highlights.
Communication Comes First
Nobody's a mind reader, and everybody likes something a little different. The single best way to improve oral is to ask your partner what feels good, then pay attention to how they respond. A soft "do you like this?" isn't just helpful — it's genuinely sexy, and it takes all the guesswork out of pleasing each other.
Slow Down and Tease
There's no prize for rushing. Building anticipation — kissing along the thighs, light touches, working your way in — makes everything that follows feel more intense. Take your time, and let the slow build do some of the work for you.
Bring Your Hands Into It
Your mouth doesn't have to do everything alone. Adding your hands lets you cover more ground, vary the sensation, and give your jaw a rest whenever you need one. A little lube keeps that hand-and-mouth teamwork feeling seamless.
Get Comfortable
Comfort matters just as much for the giver as the receiver. Prop yourself up with pillows, find an angle that doesn't strain your neck, and settle in. When you're relaxed and comfortable, you can stay present and take your time — and it shows.
A Little Lube Goes a Long Way
A good flavored, body-safe lube makes everything slicker, more comfortable, and a little tastier, too. It's one of the easiest, most affordable ways to make oral more enjoyable for both of you.
Enthusiasm Is the Secret Ingredient
Above all, oral is a chance to focus entirely on your partner's pleasure — and enthusiasm is everything. Eye contact, clearly enjoying yourself, and making your partner feel wanted are some of the sexiest things you can bring to the moment. When they feel desired and cared for, everything gets better.
Want to make it even more fun? Come see us — from flavored lubes to little toys that pair perfectly with oral, our team will happily help you find something new to try, kindly and judgment-free.
Take care of yourself.
— Sunny