Oral sex is wonderful all on its own — but adding the right toy can take it to a whole new level. In this episode of Sex Ed with Sunny, Sunny shares her favorite toys to bring into the mix and how to use them to give (and get) more pleasure.
Give it a watch, then read on for the highlights.
Why Add a Toy?
A toy isn't a replacement for your mouth and hands — it's a partner to them. Layering in a little vibration adds a whole new dimension of sensation, keeps things exciting, gives your jaw a break when you need one, and can make reaching orgasm easier and more intense. Best of all, it turns oral into a shared, playful experience.
Great Toys to Pair With Oral
A few of Sunny's favorites to bring into the mix:
- Bullet & finger vibes — small, precise, and easy to hold; perfect for adding buzz right where you want it.
- Wand vibrators — broad, rumbly power you can press against the body while your mouth does the rest.
- Vibrating cock rings — for a male partner, they add stimulation for you both and help him stay firmer, longer.
- Strokers & sleeves — pair one with your mouth on a male partner to layer in extra sensation.
- Oral-sex simulators — air-pulse and vibrating "tongue" toys mimic the real thing, and they're a fun way to warm up or take turns.
Don't Forget the Lube
A good flavored, body-safe lube makes everything more comfortable and slick — and a little tastier, too. It pairs beautifully with toys and keeps the whole experience smooth and enjoyable for both of you.
Communicate and Go Slow
Introduce a new toy gently. Start on a low setting, ask your partner what feels good, and watch how they respond. There's no rush — easing a toy into the moment builds anticipation and keeps everyone comfortable and in control.
Keep It Clean
Stick with body-safe materials, and wash your toys with warm water and a gentle toy cleaner before and after every use. Clean toys are safe toys — and they'll last a lot longer, too.
Not sure which toy to start with? Come see us — our team will happily help you find the perfect addition to the mix, kindly and judgment-free.
Take care of yourself.
— Sunny