10 Secrets to Making Her Feel Sexy

Making your woman feel sexy goes beyond just saying, “Baby, you lookin’ fine!” and immediately getting physical. While complimenting her beauty is crucial, it involves much more. You need to ensure she feels it deeply and genuinely believes it.

No one feels sexy every moment of every day. Your girlfriend might wake up feeling disheveled. She might be exhausted from work, un-showered, and stressed. Perhaps she's too distracted to focus on intimacy. As her partner, it's your role to help her feel positive, radiant, and attractive.

I've previously made the mistake of becoming "too comfortable" in a relationship—something I believe most of us have experienced at least once. You start to take what you have for granted and stop acknowledging her allure. Before you know it, the passion isn't as intense as it once was, and you're left feeling frustrated, trying to figure out where the spark disappeared. You end up directly asking her for sex and then complain when it doesn't happen.

You can't logically persuade a woman to feel aroused. You need to connect with her emotions and make her excited about you. She should desire your touch and yearn for the closeness that intimacy provides.

When you make a woman feel desired, it encourages her to feel passionate for you. She becomes more passionate, sexual, and confident in herself. It makes her think about how much she wants you because of how much you desire her. This keeps the fire alive between you and maintains the sexual chemistry at its peak.

So, how do you make her feel that way? Being flirtatious and physical is one aspect. However, don't underestimate the importance of surprising her with romantic gestures, thoughtful acts, and showing genuine care for her. The surge of positive emotions she experiences will make her feel more connected to you and encourage her to express it physically.

Looking to have your lady eagerly drawn to you? Consider trying some of these:

1. Embrace her from behind while she’s cooking and gently kiss her neck.

2. Plan an adventure together. Have her dress up for a night of dancing or try a new restaurant in town. Enjoy a Sunday picnic by the water or take a stroll through the park.

3. Embrace your inner child. Indulge in too much ice cream, have a water balloon fight, or visit Six Flags.

4. Send her a meaningful or sweet text to brighten her day. Text something playful to let her know how much she excites you. She’ll love knowing you can’t wait to be with her.

5. Surprise her with a gift to show her beauty: earrings, flowers, tickets to her favorite band or play, or a hand-delivered Starbucks latte. The little gestures matter, it’s the thought behind them that counts.

6. Touch her throughout the day. Stroke her hair in the morning, discreetly hold her at lunch, and kiss her stomach while relaxing on the couch at night. Whisper compliments in her ear at parties or bars.

7. Take your time with foreplay. Gently touch her thighs, kiss her neck, and let the moment build naturally.

8. Add variety to foreplay. Sensual talk doesn’t always have to be explicit; describe what you’re doing to her body in a flattering way. Talk about her sensations, taste, and scent in an enticing manner.

9. Come home and take her to the bedroom immediately. Show her how irresistible she is and that you need her now. Explore your sexuality together. Try role-playing and new costumes. Discover her hidden desires and fulfill them. Visit a sex shop to choose something for a special night.

10. Give her a sensual massage with oils. Take your time to caress every part of her body and show her how much you cherish it.

    
    

    

Develop your own creative ways to express your feelings as well. As a result, she'll feel more valued and sexually proactive. It's a beneficial outcome for both of you.