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The Kinky Couple’s Guide to Valentine’s Day


Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be all teddy bears and sweets. Add some spice to your night with these kinky Valentine gift ideas.

The idea of using a stiff, stainless steel spreader bar can often leave some couples feeling a bit cold. Now you can spoil your lover on Valentine’s Day without sparing the rod with the Talea Spreader Bar. This innovative restraint tool takes its name from the Latin word meaning “rod,” and is truly in a class all of its own. The Talea works exactly like a spreader bar but also has the added bonus of offering multiple bondage-inspired positions without sacrificing comfort. This dual-purpose restraint tool helps keep wrists and ankles securely in place while the soft faux leather wrap feels sexy against the skin. As a bolster, it provides comfortable, padded support under the head or knees, and it gives an extra boost and tilt when placed under the hips.

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Men deserve special treats on Valentine’s Day too. Forgo the brandy-covered cherries this holiday and treat him to something new and exciting. The Verge by We-Vibe is a new and exciting toy designed for amping up his P-spot pleasure. A kinky Valentine gift indeed, the Vibe has a unique shape that precisely massages his perineum with gentle pressure and vibrations whether he’s using it solo, or during sex. If Valentine’s Day has you both celebrating from a distance, the Verge is app-ready to offer intimacy at your fingertips regardless of distance. Easy to use, the We-Connect App lets you control each other’s We-Vibe products in real-time with preset modes. Or better yet, make it a memorable occasion by creating your own custom vibrations.

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We absolutely adore this kinky Valentine gift idea because you can take it to the floor, fields, or outdoor patio. No matter your location, the Escape Wet gives you a sleek and slick surface to fulfill any fantasy. It’s like having your own portable sexual theater. For a romantic night in, line the edge of the Escape Wet with LED candles and watch the light reflecting off its slick PVC cover. For dessert, pour champagne, paint with chocolate sauce or get completely messy with whipped cream without the messing up the floors. Use the Escape Wet as an adult version of Slip-n-Slide and play-wrestle using oils, lubes, or wax. The sky’s the limit! This padded playscape can take it all and more. And with a machine-washable cover, removing it is easy after the fun is done.

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Kama Sutra Feel Me Playset

Year after year, it seems that quality gifts you both can enjoy become harder to find. Luckily, we found this kinky Valentine gift idea and could not resist the urge of playing with it ourselves. The Kama Sutra Feel Me Playset is great for couples who have a soft interest in exploring kinky sex. Equipped with a set of erotic playing cards, the Feel Me Playset offers a guided tour of releasing your inhibitions. This playful collection also includes a spanking crop, erotic body products, and candle.

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The Bed Buckler is an ingenious choice when it comes to kinky Valentine gift ideas. First, it’s designed to go anywhere! Second, it’s incognito! Although the Bed Buckler may look innocent enough; with its kitten-soft cuffs, it’s actually up to the task of some hard-core restraint play. Crafted from durable, rip-stop nylon, this under-the-bed restraint system sets up in minutes by slipping under any mattress or box spring. The four, 20-inch durable nylon tethers wrap around the surface of the bed leaving enough room to comfortably strap your lover down with the Velcro adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs. Bonus D-rings make the Bed Buckler compatible with scarves, rope or your favorite leather cuffs.

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When thinking of a kinky Valentine gift idea we immediately thought of the Balthazar Flogger by Dragontailz. This leather flogger would make a great gift for anyone—whether they’re new to kink or a seasoned BDSM enthusiast. A lot of passion goes into making this amazingly sexy tool. The solid oak wood handle has a gorgeous ornamental end cap which is expertly bundled with a Kangaroo Leather overlay for maintaining a strong grip during the most intense sessions. Weighty, bold and balanced, the Balthazar helps amplify the art of anticipation and provides precise control with every flick of the wrist. Plus, it feels so good when stroked against bare, naked skin!

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Valentine’s Day is a great time for giving yourself permission to just let go! No holds barred kind of celebration. So why not take advantage and go wild and experience the thrill of being angled high and held down. The Liberator Black Label Ramp is the one kinky Valentine gift that lets you “master all the possibilities.” Designed with a 10-14 inch rise, the Black Label Ramp creates effortless from-behind positions while making other mattress moves feel more satisfying. The added bonus is men can last longer with the help of its ergonomic support while their partners feel completely supported. The option of having four connector points means there is no end to the opportunities for creativity and playful restraint.

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When it comes to kinky Valentine gift ideas, nothing says I LOVE YOU, BABY more than

tweaking someone’s nipples. A highly erogenous zone(s), the nipples are often a pathway that leads straight toward stronger orgasms. The Ouch! Adjustable Nipple Clamps by Shots the perfect foreplay tool to getting the night started. Crafted with stainless steel and aluminum, these nickel-free adjustable clamps are easy to apply and are suitable for both men and women.

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Sometimes you have to step outside of the box of chocolates when it comes to kinky Valentine gift ideas. Instead of the typical black and red leather color scheme, why not accent your deviant V-day playtime with a set of stylish Barcelona faux fur-lined cuffs. These ultra-modern and unique cuffs were created by the artisans at Liberator LeatherWorks and designed for maximum restraint and soft, plush comfort. Just imagine feeling the combination of faux fur, latigo leather, and nickel plated hardware while playing out your favorite scenes. Make your Valentine feel extra special this holiday!

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Giving your sweetheart a bundle of rope may seem counter-intuitive when it comes to kinky Valentine gift ideas. But the Bamboo Silk Rope from deGiotto may just spark everyone’s imagination. Each rope is wound the same way they did hundreds of years ago and put through a meticulous finishing process to enhance the soft luxurious feel. Great for curious couples, this silky rope is soft, comfortable and cozy and makes for a wild night with your partner.

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Pegging—a sexual act made popular in recent years—is when a lady dons a strap-on dildo and makes sensational love to her partner. For a successful and safe Pegging adventure, the Two Strap is the go-to harness and the ideal kinky Valentine gift of gifts. The Two Strap Harness is sexy and definitely plays well with others. It has a classic, adjustable jockstrap design and is comfortable to wear. Set the wide elastic waistband to your size with the Velcro tabs and then it’s ready to pull on panty-style whenever you need it. All you need is the perfect sized member!

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Colette & Sebastian Mila Harness

Give the gift that keeps on giving this Valentine’s Day—Yourself all dressed up! Powerful and commanding, the Colette & Sebastian Mila Harness is designed for capturing your lover’s attention. The high neck, front geometric design meets at the sternum and helps with elongating the torso. In back, a thin strap runs down the length of the back while accentuating the curves around the body and waist. Wear it out under a blazer for a sexy statement piece or with your favorite garter for an amazing visual.

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It’s our duty to offer kinky Valentine gift ideas that inspire and ignite passion. And with the Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage Candle, you can have your cake and eat it too. The subtle light from this candle will help inspire a sexy mood while the cosmetic-grade wax can help ignite the passion. Designed for kink play, the Afterglow Massage Candle let couples explore the art of wax play on Valentine’s day.

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