Enhance Your Sex Life: A Guide to Lube

Lubricants are likely among the top-selling items in every adult store. It's clear to see why...

Studies indicate that individuals who use lubricant (commonly known as lube) tend to experience enhanced sex lives and orgasms. However, when you begin exploring lubes, you'll discover a wide variety of options—silicone lubes, flavored lubes, oil-based lubes, water-based lubes, and more. It can be challenging to keep track of what each type does and determine which is best for you. Understanding the differences is crucial to choosing the right lube for your personal needs.

What Exactly Is Lube?

To start, it's important to understand what you're discussing. A lubricant is a substance that minimizes friction between moving surfaces. When it comes to our own "moving parts," lube can greatly enhance sexual pleasure. By decreasing friction and increasing smoothness in sensitive areas, both sex and masturbation can reach a whole new level of excitement.

Lube vs. Glide

You might have seen some lubes marketed as a "personal glide." So, what's the distinction between a glide and a lubricant? Let us explain. To be called a "lubricant," a product must have 510(K) certification from the Food and Drug Administration (FDA), indicating it complies with the FDA's rigorous standards for cleanliness and safety. If it meets the FDA's criteria, it's suitable for your intimate areas.

What Are the Differences Between Types of Lubricants?

This is a frequently asked question, so if you want to become knowledgeable about lubricants (and impress your partner), here’s a straightforward overview of the main types of lube:

Water-Based Lube

Water-based lubricants are the most prevalent. This is primarily because they’re easy to clean, can be washed off linens or clothing, are safe for the body, and are even safe to use with condoms and toys. They can be formulated to mimic a woman’s natural lubrication. Water-based lubes also come in delicious flavors, making them excellent for oral sex. (Be sure to taste a flavor before buying.) Water-based lube can dry out or be absorbed into your skin, so it might need reapplication. Additionally, since it comes in various formulations, check the ingredients for allergens. Flavored lubes might contain glycerin, which can lead to a yeast infection—not enjoyable! However, they are still great for oral play!

Silicone-Based Lube

This lubricant provides a silky texture and is hypoallergenic, making it ideal for those with sensitive skin or allergies. Unlike water-based lube, silicone lube requires fewer reapplications because it doesn't dry out and offers a slipperier feel. It's perfect to have on hand near a hot tub or shower, as silicone remains in place and doesn't wash away during water activities. However, be cautious not to spill it on the shower floor as it can become dangerously slippery. Additionally, avoid using silicone lube with silicone toys, as it can react with the material, causing the toy to degrade. It's also difficult to remove from fabric, so consider this if you plan to use your finest silk sheets. Doc Johnson’s Kink Wet Works Waterproof Fitted Sheet will protect your sheets.

Hybrid Lube

Most hybrid lubricants are a blend of silicone and water, offering the advantages of both types. These hybrids deliver the slickness of silicone with the easy cleanup of a water-based lubricant. Since the silicone content is low, they are generally safe to use with silicone toys, but it's recommended to conduct a patch test first. There are also coconut oil and water-based lubricants that provide a silky, creamy lotion-like feel. Hybrid lubes are not as slippery as silicone or as thick as water-based options, and some may contain ingredients that could irritate sensitive skin. Be sure to read the label!

Oil-Based Lube

This lubricant is ideal for sensual massages and hand jobs, or essentially any type of foreplay that doesn't involve penetration. Although it has a smooth and slippery texture, oil-based lube has its drawbacks. It is not suitable for vaginal use and can increase the risk of infections compared to other lubricants, so it is not advised for intercourse. Additionally, these lubes are not compatible with condoms or barriers. Keeping that in mind, feel free to enjoy it for external play.

Specialty Lube

There are various "warming" and "cooling" lubricants designed to stimulate the intimate areas, whether you're looking to add excitement or experience a chill. Many warming lubricants include a small amount of capsaicin, the active ingredient in chili peppers, or cinnamon oil for their warming effect. Most cooling lubricants contain menthol or mint to create a cooling sensation. When trying these lubricants in-store, it's recommended to apply a little on the back of your hand and blow on it to fully experience the effects. Anal lubricants are vital for both beginners and experienced users, as they are specifically formulated to enhance pleasure and minimize discomfort. Let's not forget about gels and jellies! Their thicker consistency is perfect for use with toys, solo activities, or partner play, and they provide extra cushioning for anal play.

Unique Needs

The lubricant market is as diverse as the range of products we offer. A significant segment of this market includes menopausal women, who often prefer System JO’s Agape lubricant. This water-based product is pH-balanced to replicate a woman’s natural lubrication and is free of glycerin, silicone, and oil. Women experiencing or having experienced cancer often undergo early menopause and depend on lubricants for a fulfilling sexual experience. Cancer patients and survivors are generally more cautious about ingredients, favoring more natural options. We suggest Sliquid Organics or Wicked Sensual Aqua Sensitive for them.