You are staring at your partner in bed. Every night, you come in, take a shower and kiss good night. If there is any sexual activity, maybe a missionary style with just a few strokes. You no longer turn the lights on. Sometimes you even keep your shirt on. The trails are ice cold, and the sexual depression has softly clawed into your bedroom. Or maybe you have sex, hot steaming sex. But both you and your partners
are just super kinky and want to spice up your escapades. Whatever the case, you are contemplating bondage play.
Bondage sex is one of the most exciting and intense sexual practices in modern world. It involves dominance, submission and role-play in giving and receiving pleasure. While you might be frustrated your partner no longer enjoys sex, a surprise blindfold or a spank while you kiss and caress their body can get them turned on for an explosive sensual performance. And if you want more intensity, tie up your partner, combine your sexual artistry with exceptional sex toys and pleasure them into explosive orgasms. Make them keep begging for more.
But before you start your bondage journey, you need to invest in a bondage kit to help you pleasure like a pro.
How to Buy Bondage Kits
1. Contemplate Your BDSM Interest Level
Bondage play though kinky and appealing involves many practices from simple blindfolding and spanking to total sadomasochism (infliction of pain and humiliation for sexual pleasure). Determine if you just need to test the waters, take bondage to the next stage or you already are a seasoned pro. Because in each stage, the bondage gears required vary greatly.
Newbie- at this level, you are exploring bondage play for the first time. Choose a beginner-friendly bondage kit. Beginners’ kits are packed with light pleasure bondage gears such as furry handcuffs, blindfolds, bed restraints, tickler feathers, all meant to intensify your sensation and pleasure you.
Intermediate- at this level, you have already tried and liked bondage play. You are now beginning to venture into more hardcore dynamics of bondage. Go for kinky kits that contain retainers and sensory stimulators that will get you considering your bondage fantasies. Some of your interest gears may be floggers, bed or wall restraints, robes, nipple suckers, cock rings, butt plugs and dildo. Be free to let your personal interests and preferences guide you.
Seasoned Pro- at this level, you definitely need no advising. So get wild and challenge your fetish and fantasies.
2. Contemplate Your Game Preferences
Bondage play involves different types of games that can be delivered in varying intensities. You need to consider your games preferences and what types of toys will be needed to make the moment as stimulating and sensual as possible.
• If you enjoy a strong restraining but dislike pain, toys like whips, nipple suckers, electro rings won’t be needed in your bucket list.
• For those in love with teasing and forced pleasure games, butt plugs, cock rings and suckers will blow you up when paired with sensory enhancement.
• And for those tuned to punishment and discipline, then whips, gags, robes and electrocutes are a must have.
Also think about your type of play. For those playing as a conventional couple, invest in a couple’s kit which will be packaged with both men and women friendly toys such as cock rings for harder erections , rabbit dildo vibrators for her dual stimulations and maybe a textured stroker for him. Where anal play is involved, take a bum-fun adventurer bondage kit with varying anal toys such as butt plugs, anal beads and probers for an intense anal play of your lifetime.
3. Know Your Materials
Bondage gears are made from different materials ranging from rubber, silicone, metal, leather, plastic, neoprene, latex and exotic fabrics. Every material presents a unique texture and aesthesis to the game.
While your choice materials depend on your personal preference, invest in bondage gears made from high quality, strong and steady materials. For insertable sex toys like butt plugs, vibrators and dildos, go for body safe, nonporous and easy to clean materials. Some materials such as latex can cause severe allergic reactions. So determine if you are allergic by taking a medical blood test. Other materials such as jelly and cyberskin hybrids may contain phthalates, a plastic softening agent that is toxic to the body. Porous materials are also harder to clean and sterilized which can put you at risk of infections. Silicone, metal and leather are deemed body safe and easy to clean but, they will cost you more.
Erotic Bondage Precaution and Safety
Bondage sex intends to challenge the human anatomy by inflicting pain and pleasure for sexual eroticism. The activities involved can be tragic if not carried out with precision and care. Peaches and Screams advocate that you play safe and pleasurably. Here are safety measures you should never compromise:
• Only play bondage with a partner you trust. If you don’t fully trust them, practice in a supervised playroom such as a dungeon.
• Only play when both of you are sober. Any bondage activities are safer if conducted between sober and trusted playmates. The moment you are restrained, you give your body to your partner to do with it as they please. A drug induced partner might not be mentally conditioned to priorities your comfort and safety.
• Avoid restraints positions that can induce postural asphyxia or impair breathing. Pay attention to your submissive and release them immediately if you notice numbness, coldness or discoloration. This is an indication of restrictive blood circulation which can cause permanent organ damage.
• Respect your playmate. Establish a safeword (both verbal and non-verbal) that should be used in situations your submissive is in genuine distress and need you to stop.
At Pleasures, we know bondage play is a channel to deeper orgasms and explosive eroticism. It is a bundle to exquisite well-orchestrated games that will bring you closer to your lover. Open up to erotic freedom with our intricate range of bondage kits and turn your playroom into a sexual paradise.
