The Basics of Sex 2

About Masturbation

Many individuals discover their sexual preferences by experimenting with what feels pleasurable through self-touch. As our bodies evolve over time, so do our desires and techniques. Masturbation is a vital aspect of understanding ourselves and identifying what we enjoy or do not, regardless of age. Surprisingly, many people engage in masturbation in various ways. If you're looking to add some excitement to your routine, visit our website for ideas on activities and sensations you might want to explore. Masturbation is enjoyable, reduces stress, alleviates boredom, boosts mood, can improve your skills as a lover, and is beneficial for your well-being!

About Penis Size

There is a common misconception and widespread fear that larger penises dominate the realm of sexual satisfaction. In biological reality, 90% of erect penises are between 5-7 inches long and 1-2 inches in diameter. If you're worried that your penis is too small, rest assured you are not alone. In a society influenced by the belief that bigger is better, particularly in media and culture, this notion doesn't hold true for everything, especially tools. Consider your penis as a tool for a moment. If it's too small, what exactly is it inadequate for? Just as different tasks require different tools, people often have varying preferences for penis sizes depending on the activity. Some prefer larger sizes for oral sex, medium for vaginal, and smaller for anal sex, while others have opposite preferences or fall somewhere in between. Some enjoy the sensation of fullness a larger penis can offer, but there are numerous ways to achieve this feeling. For countless ideas, visit our website.

For many, penis size is irrelevant. Surveys about what women and men seek in a lover reveal that most people prioritize qualities such as emotional connection, attentiveness, and sensitivity to their partner's body, as well as responsiveness to individual needs. To please your partner, take the time to understand their body and discover what excites them. Let go of any concerns about size and appreciate your body; it can bring you immense pleasure.

About the Prostate Gland

The prostate gland is a sensitive internal tissue in men that many find pleasurable when stimulated. This stimulation can be most directly achieved through the anus, and even many straight men enjoy it. The gland produces a fluid that contributes to semen production and closes the urinary duct to allow sperm to pass safely. Located a few inches inside the anal opening, the prostate can be stimulated through the rectal wall. Some men experience orgasm from prostate stimulation, regardless of whether they have an erection.

If the man is lying on his back, gently insert one or two fingers into the anus, facing upward, and curl your fingers in a "come hither" motion. Many men report enjoying a stroking or massaging sensation.

When stimulating the prostate manually, ensure your nails are trimmed, as the anus is a sensitive area that can easily tear or scrape. It's less durable for penetration than the vagina. You might consider using a latex glove, available at drugstores or sex shops, to facilitate smoother entry. Finger cots are also an option. Additionally, don't forget the lubricant, as the anus doesn't naturally produce fluids that ease gliding.

Fingers aren't the only means of enhancing anal pleasure. The receiving male can explore butt plugs, vibrators, dildos, or natural penises if desired. Use your imagination to choose or create toys. If using a toy, ensure it has a flange—a base that prevents it from being fully absorbed by the anus, which could require medical assistance for removal. The anus can act as a strong suction device.

It's important to remember that not all men enjoy prostate stimulation. Some find it uncomfortable or painful. Preferences vary: some men prefer gentle pressure, others like it firm; some enjoy constant pressure, while others prefer a pulsing motion. Some men only appreciate the sensation when already highly aroused. Communication is key to ensuring your male partner's enjoyment. Ask him how it feels.

About Toy Care and Cleaning

If you plan to share toys with others or use the same toy for both vaginal and anal insertion, consider using a condom on the toy. This way, you won't need to wash the toy thoroughly before each use; simply replace the condom. Do this before another person uses it or before inserting it into a vagina after it has been in an anus, as anal bacteria can be harmful to vaginal health.

Some vibrators are waterproof and can be cleaned with soap and water, similar to washing dishes. Non-waterproof vibrators should not be submerged in water, as it can damage the motor. Instead, clean them with a soapy rag.

Silicone toys can be washed with soap and water, placed on the top rack of a dishwasher, or boiled if they are 100% silicone. Only use water-based lubricants with silicone toys, as silicone lubricants can damage their surfaces.

Rubber toys, including jelly toys, are porous and can harbor bacteria. Using a condom is a great way to keep them clean. Anti-bacterial toy cleaning detergents and wipes are available in our catalog. Be sure to read the instructions, as many products require rinsing after use.

Skin-simulating rubber compounds like Futurotic Plus™, Ultra Flesh, Cyberskin®, Soft Skins Plus®, UR3®, Senso®, and Fanta Flesh™ are usually semi-porous. Take extra care to clean and rinse them thoroughly between uses. Pat them dry and dust with corn starch to prevent stickiness and maintain their skin-like texture.

All toys should be completely rinsed and dried before storage to preserve their quality.